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5 reasons you need this piece of sex furniture

March 7, 2018 ·

Sex furniture, also known as erotic furniture, refers to any type of furniture that can act as an aid to sexual activity. This can include chairs, couches, cushions, swings, and a number of other things. There are many options out there that can aid in sex, but a new option on the market called the Perfect Pleasure cushion combines the best of many products into one. Here are five reasons why you need this in your bedroom:

1. Try new sex positions

Who doesn’t want something new to try in the bedroom? A great piece of sex furniture will allow you to do things you never thought possible, especially when it can hold toys as well as your body. By offering support and the ability to holster sex toys you are free to get creative solo or with a partner. The Perfect Pleasure cushion’s modular design forms multiple different shapes which allow for a range of possibilities that no other sex furniture can match. IT can be used for masturbation, oral sex, or regular intercourse. Check out our few positions of the positions you can try out.

2. This sex furniture is award nominated

The Perfect Pleasure cushion is our startup company’s first product on the market, but that didn’t stop it from receiving multiple award nominations including:

“Couples Sex Kit/Toy of the Year” by the XBIZ Awards
“Outstanding Non-powered product of the year” by the O-awards
“Best Pleasure Product Manufacturer” by the AVN Awards

Nominees for the 2018 XBIZ and AVN Awards were selected based on more than 8,000 pre-nominations submitted by members of the industry via XBIZ.net. In these categories we were the only sex furniture and toy mount device that received recognition, so you know we’re special 😉

3. Go hands-free with your favorite toys

Most people are used to holding their sex toys while masturbating or having sex. But using them without your hands is a whole new experience. With the Perfect Pleasure cushion’s patent pending toy mount and multi slot design you can go hands-free with all different types of toys and enjoy an orgasmic experience like never before!

For instance, when used with the Magic Wand original it allows both partners to feel the vibrations at the same time. It’s a vibratory experience you simply have to try to believe.

4. Discreet home decor for other uses

One of the best things about this product is it is discreet and will blend in with your home decor. It can also be used for other things besides sex. It can be nice backrest to something firmer than a normal pillow that allows you to prop your back up for reading or TV watching. It can even form into a laptop stand or TV tray when you’re trying to do some work or watch something on your computer without having to hold it on your lap.

5. An inclusive product designed to fit every body, GUARANTEED

We all come in different shapes, sizes and abilities. On top of this, we have different preferences when it comes to sex. The Perfect Pleasure cushion is designed to fit every body at least one way, so you can rest assured there is something for everyone when it comes to this sex cushion. We are so confident in the design of this product that we offer a money back guarantee if you are not fully satisfied with your purchase. How many other sex toys can say that?

So, what are you waiting for? If these five reasons aren’t enough then head over to our position gallery to see 10 more reasons why you should get IT today. When coupled with the Magic Wand you will be fully equipped to experience the joys of the best sex ever!

About The It Collection

The It Collection is a sexual wellness company based in Dallas, TX that specializes in designing luxury products designed to enhance intimacy for all. Our flagship product, the Perfect Pleasure Cushion, is a modular toy-mount that folds into many different positions to fit the unique needs of individuals and couples.

“Our goal here at The It Collection is to create products which provide the highest level of pleasure to any and all who use them,” says founder and inventor Deanna Theis.

As a company dedicated to designing products that are for every body, one of the cornerstones of our mission is universal design. This concept encompasses the principle of inclusivity and acceptance of our differences, another very important issue to The It Collection. No matter what age, shape, gender, or body ability, this company and its journey to self-love is for you. For more information you can read all about the Perfect Pleasure cushion’s features and benefits on our website. Here’s to your perfect pleasure!

My Grace and Frankie Story: How I Got Into The Sexual Wellness Industry

May 30, 2017 ·

How I Got Into The Sexual Wellness Industry

After watching season 3 of Grace and Frankie, I cannot think of a TV show I have ever related to more. I am currently living the tale of being a woman entering the sexual wellness industry, aiding those with mobility issues, and facing the many challenging obstacles of getting such an endeavor off the ground. The funny thing is in many ways it was purely accidental that I got into this business. But to accurately tell the tale though we must go back to 2010 when I finally discovered the Hitachi Magic Wand.

On the recommendation of a girlfriend, I was given my first magic wand back in 2010. This truly magical device consistently brought me to the orgasm I never had, which in turn brought me to the unfortunate realization I had been suffering from sexual dysfunction for most of my life. Astonished I had never been privy to the glory of the #1 selling sex toy since the late 1960s, I made it my life’s mission to make sure every woman who knew me also knew about the magic within this real life Magic Wand. Starting with my family and friends, of course, most of who fell willing victim to the spell it cast. Hermione Granger eat your heart out.

The unfortunate reality is I am far from alone with these issues, as over 40 percent of women struggle with sexual dysfunction. (citation) And it wasn’t just my inability to orgasm that precluded me from pure sexual satisfaction. In 2012 I temporarily lost the use of my right arm due to a suspected pinched nerve. It was quite alarming, and my relationship with my new best friend suffered because of this. What’s a girl to do when she can’t hold her wand?!
After a few failed attempts with other hands-free toy mount solutions on the market (they all sucked), I knew I could make something better. An obvious problem in need of a new solution had presented itself, and my mission further crystallized. Not only must I spread the joy of the wand, but I must also make sure everybody, no matter their differences, can take full advantage of its magnificence. From this mission was born The It Collection and our first product, the Perfect Pleasure cushion.

I am beyond thrilled that what I have been working on for four years with my wonderful team, is now in production and available for sale. I’ll have to save the full story for another blog post because there is simply too much to tell in one, but I’ll say this for now. I am consistently amazed at the need for this product and the many different stories I hear and people I meet that can relate. I’ve learned that people are much more willing to talk about these issues than I had originally anticipated. It also seems that the older the woman, the more willing they are to open up. I’ve had conversations with complete strangers everywhere from a Denny’s to the post office about sex, masturbation, and mobility issues.

This journey has taken me to many amazing places and taught me a lot along the way. Most recently I had the incredible opportunity to present the Perfect Pleasure cushion at the Injury To Intimacy: Embracing Sexuality after Spinal Cord Injury Conference at Mount Sinai in NYC. I learned about different ways those with spinal injuries have sex, and I was delighted at the response the cushion received as a new solution. After demoing the cushion we gave one away, and the smile on her face made me so happy. It was a great experience and further reaffirmed the fact that so many people can benefit from this.

While my mobility issue may pale in comparison to what many others face, I’ve learned that anything that limits your ability to lead a healthy sex life is profoundly affecting. All of these issues can have deeply personal ramifications, and Grace and Frankie graciously tackles the biggest mobility issue of all head on. Arthritis.

Affecting 40 million in the US and 350 million worldwide the numbers are astonishing. (See source article on National Arthritis Month for more statistics). We all know someone suffering from arthritis, but what is often not talked about is the effect this can have on their sexual well-being. Grace’s issues with arthritis are directly addressed in the show, and become the inspiration for their product the Ménage à Moi, a vibrator designed for older woman with mobility issues. Yes I can relate.

It was just this year that I’ve also come to find that interestingly enough May is Masturbation month (see our first blog post) and National Arthritis month. What a serendipitous month it is to address these issues together. Practicing self-love is one of the most natural and personal things a person can do. I believe that no woman or man should go through life thinking they are “broken” because they are ashamed to talk about it or unable find their own way to effectively reach orgasm on their own.

If it wasn’t for a girlfriend who told me about the wand I could have easily gone the rest of my life not knowing what I was missing out on! I’ve discovered the cushion opens up a whole new world of possibilities in the bedroom, allowing both individuals and couples reach levels of sexual satisfaction that are just simply not possible without such an aid.

In closing, I’d like to invite everyone to join us at The It Collection in finding your ultimate personal pleasure state with a cushion of your own. I recommend the wand to go with it of course, but here we say “pick your pleasure.” No matter your age, shape, size or ability, we are here to help by curating a range of products that improve personal satisfaction and partner intimacy. The Perfect Pleasure cushion is only our first universally designed product in our line of luxury intimacy aids. The journey ahead will be long and eventful as we work tirelessly to enhance sexuality one orgasm at a time. As Grace says, “I only have one speed: breakneck.” Again, I can relate.

– Deanna Theis, Founder of The It Collection

Self-Love: The It Collection & Masturbation Month

May 1, 2017 ·

self-love
ˈˌself ˈləv/
noun: self-love

regard for one’s own well-being and happiness (chiefly considered as a desirable rather than narcissistic characteristic).

It seems fitting to launch The It Collection’s official blog on May 1st, the beginning of Masturbation Month. Today marks an entire month dedicated to promoting the healthy acceptance of one of self love’s most intimate offerings. To love yourself is to accept yourself, and masturbation teaches us just that. To accept our sexuality, to accept our differences, and to accept whatever about us is unique. This understanding that masturbation is more than okay is critical to self-acceptance and self-love. Here at The It Collection, self-love is what we are all about.

Now you may be curious, why is May Masturbation Month? When did this even happen? Well, it traces back to 1994 when U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders spoke openly about masturbation in response to an audience question about masturbation’s potential for discouraging early sexual activity at the UN World Aids Day. She answered, “I think it is something that is part of human sexuality and a part of something that perhaps should be taught.”

This completely rational statement was unsurprisingly too radical for the establishment to handle, and soon after that, the first African-American Surgeon General’s Washington career was over. This did not sit well with many who were, and still are, sick and tired of the way sex education and values are administered in this country.

It was the founders of the incredible San Francisco-based sexual wellness company Good Vibrations who did something about it that caught on. In 1995 they declared May National Masturbation Month as a way to keep up awareness about the unjust sacking of Elder, and to make people actually address what is still too often a taboo subject — Masturbation.

Yes, masturbation, the thing 98% of people do that relieves stress, is good for the immune system and is the safest sex possible, but somehow still remains a relatively taboo subject. Masturbation Month is a time for everyone to get out of the closet and embrace their own sexuality in whatever way they like. Everyone masturbates (the other 2% is pretty much lying), even those who have partners. Masturbating with your partner is in fact amazing! We at The It Collection are grateful for this month because we support sexuality in all forms.

So, how far have we come in the 20 plus years since this month came into existence? I would say we have made progress, but there’s still plenty of room for improvement. The biggest shift has to be the acceptance of homosexuality throughout society, which is a win for love on all accounts. A month celebrating one of the universal tenants of human sexuality is the thing our society needs. We see more companies embrace these concepts as well. The It Collection is going to be the next big line of sexual wellness products that caters to every body no matter the shape, size or ability.

With a focus on servicing all needs and a commitment to universal design principles, we at The It Collection aim to offer products that will increase intimacy and pleasure for all. We strive for inclusivity, which is what really stood out to me about the company’s mission.

The It Collection team went to the Adult Video & Novelty (AVN) conference this year, and it was so wonderful to see all these different forms of sexuality so accepted and out in the open. One of the speakers said, “Don’t yuck someone else’s yum.” A cheeky way to put what might be the most beautiful and perfect take on sexuality. Everyone is different and into different things, but in the end, we all want love. This message was front and center at the AVNs. Accept what others enjoy, as this will help you accept yourself and what you enjoy. In the end, it is self-love that is the most important form of love we really need.

So, celebrate Masturbation Month proudly! Get off creatively as many times as you can. And do yourself a favor and grab yourself a Perfect Pleasure Cushion. Whether self-love or partner love it will open up a new world of possibilities and help you find your personal pleasure state. That is what IT’s all about.